Working on the easy steps how to get your ex back?

Looking for some easy things for help how to get your ex back  is desire of every one affected in this game of life? It is when both the partners think they are clever and no one is ready to step down a bit to give room for the relationship matters to breathe and live their own way and start living for each other.
When the curtain has fallen on the past life of living together, it is now the time:
1.      For going out with the friends.
2.      Getting into a better shape in appearance and positive thoughts.
3.      The separated partner needs space to be alone and think constructive ways.
4.      In case there is no other work to do, just move out enjoy the sun if climate permits and read a good book.
5.      There is necessity of going out very often and start meeting new people and build new friendships.
On the contrary of above if the person maintains clinginess with the ex-partner, which is not accepted and appreciated and is not going to work.